This PR changes helm template to allow more comprehensive configuration in affinity. Instead of treating affinity as a static map, it expects a string passed there, which would be then processed as a template and therefore resolve any links, such as f.e. {{ include "code-server.name" . }} .
This then allows to configure something like this:

affinity: |
  podAntiAffinity:
    preferredDuringSchedulingIgnoredDuringExecution:
      - weight: 100
        podAffinityTerm:
          labelSelector:
            matchExpressions:
            - key: app.kubernetes.io/name
              operator: In
              values:
              - {{ include "code-server.name" . }}
          topologyKey: kubernetes.io/hostname

Above allows to properly spread pods over nodes without hardcoding any labels in values file.

This approach is somewhat common in helm ecosystem, f.e. see here:
https://github.com/codecentric/helm-charts/blob/31f44ca368cef7585760edc8f22c011cab1be284/charts/keycloakx/templates/statefulset.yaml#L184

The change is breaking though, so I am not 100 percent sure this has to be included, I am sending this as a suggestion and input for discussion.