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| 2 | +layout: post |
| 3 | +title: Stumbling on Happiness |
| 4 | +date: 2016-09-02 00:00 |
| 5 | +categories: |
| 6 | +- book-a-day |
| 7 | +--- |
| 8 | + |
| 9 | +## _Stumbling on Happiness_ by Daniel Gilbert |
| 10 | + |
| 11 | +After reading _[The Elements of Style][eos]_ yesterday, this book is at the other end of the spectrum. Instead of just telling me the gist of what I need to know, Daniel goes in depth describing the research and psychology that create a structure around what we *just* refer to as **Happiness**. |
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| 13 | +[eos]: /book/stumbling-on-happiness.html |
| 14 | + |
| 15 | +I am sure the research is insightful, but it isn't what I am looking for. The bones and structure of the book helped me to better understand and look at _happiness_ but I don't need to know the details. Having just finished Season 2 of [Invisibilia][invis], I appreciated the way Lulu, Alix, and Hanna constructed the information and research into _stories_. |
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| 17 | +[invis]: http://www.npr.org/programs/invisibilia/478429275/invisibilia-season-2-trailer?showDate=2016-05-20 |
| 18 | + |
| 19 | +Daniel opens each chapter with a quote from Shapespeare; if _that's_ your jam, then this book is for you. |
| 20 | + |
| 21 | +Derek Sivers, who should always be trusted more than me, gave the book a [10/10][10]. |
| 22 | + |
| 23 | +[10]: https://sivers.org/book/StumblingOnHappiness |
| 24 | + |
| 25 | +**Am I going to read more of it?** _No_ |
| 26 | + |
| 27 | +**Does the book spark joy?** _No_ |
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| 29 | +--- |
| 30 | + |
| 31 | +#### my notes |
| 32 | + |
| 33 | +* PART I - Prospection |
| 34 | + |
| 35 | + >> The act of looking forward in time or considering the future. |
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| 37 | + > ...the human brain's greatest achievement...conscious experience. |
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| 39 | + > In Part II, "Subjectivity," I will tell you about the science of happiness. |
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| 41 | + > In Part III, "Realism," I will tell you about the first shortcoming: Imagination works so quickly, quietly, and effectively that we are insufficiently skeptical of its products. |
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| 43 | + > In Part IV, "Presentism," I will tell you about the second shortcoming: Imagination's products are ... well, not particularly imaginative, which is why the imagined future often looks so much like the actual present. |
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| 45 | + > In Part V, "Rationalization," ...If we have trouble foreseeing future events, then we have even more trouble foreseeing how we will see them when they happen. |
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| 47 | + > ...in Part VI, "Corrigibility," I will tell you why illusions of foresight are note easily remedied by personal experience or by the wisdom we inherit from our grandmothers. |
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| 49 | + > ...I hope you will understand why most of us spend so much of our lives turning rudders and hoisting sails, only to find that Shangri-la isn't what and where we thought it would be. |
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| 51 | +* PART II - Subjectivity |
| 52 | + |
| 53 | + >> The fact that experience is unobservable to everyone but the person having it. |
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| 55 | +* PART III - Realism |
| 56 | + |
| 57 | + >> The belief that things are in reality as they appear to be in the mind. |
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| 59 | + > Even though we are aware in some vaguely academic sense that our brains are doing the filling-in trick, we can't help but expect the future to unfold with the details we imagine. |
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| 61 | +* PART IV - Presentism |
| 62 | + |
| 63 | + >> The tendency for current experience to influence one's views of the past and the future. |
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| 65 | +* PART V - Rationalization |
| 66 | + |
| 67 | + >> The act of causing something to be or to seem reasonable. |
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| 69 | + >> For there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. |
| 70 | + >> |
| 71 | + >> — Shakespear, Hamlet Prince of Denmark |
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| 73 | +* PART VI - Corrigibility |
| 74 | + |
| 75 | + >> Ability to be being corrected, reformed, or improved |
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| 77 | +* Afterword |
| 78 | + |
| 79 | + > Most of us make at least three important decisions in our lives; where to live, what to do, and with whom to do it...Making these decisions is such a natural part of adulthood that it is easy to forget that we are among the first human beings to make them. |
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| 81 | + > How are we to make these choices? |
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| 83 | + > Daniel Bernoulli claimed...that the wisdom of any decision could be calculated by multiplying the **probability** that the decision will give us what we want by the **utility** of getting what we want. |
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